Mars & Venus on the Earth!

I am feeling good.....especially since I am continuing with my blog entries regularly as I had decided. Whether anybody reads it or not is less important but I think this is an easy way to express myself. I remember during my school days I was fascinated by poetry & I did make some poems too. It was a way to express....but as time passed different things occupied the life. College, then Job, then competition to stay ahead in job & blahh....blahh....But I think all this had made me more mechanical if not emotionless. Expression was never much a taboo for me but this blog did help me in coming out of that daily mechanical/professional routine. Today I think differently, I read different things & may be looking at life with bit more broader perspective. It's Great!!!
Just some time back I was reading an article about Man - Woman friendship & whether can it be pure friendship without that L factor. Of course the intent of the article was more related with friendship between young men & women. But it is true that it is very difficult to maintain that platonic friendship with opposite sex. Can we blame nature for that..may be. Everyone need to accept the fact that though today men & women are more close on social & professional front like never before nature has infused that Basic Instinct in both male & female of all the species. So to overcome that instinct we need to be more & more self disciplined. Especially in countries like India where youth population is majority then this self discipline is definitely the need of the hour. I might sound fundamentalist or orthodox but this is very important considering the future of the mankind. Today we talk of Live-in relationship, Casual Sex or One Night Stand but let's understand this is not something which is invented all of a sudden. Opposite poles attract is the fundamental concept. History shows that right from the age of Cleopatra or Ramayana or Mahabharata it's this man-woman undisciplined relationship which was the basis for all the troubles & even today it is the same. They say there is a thin line between friendship & romance in man-woman relationship & when this line is crossed may be by consent or by that strong force of attraction it can devastate both of them emotionally & psychologically if it is immoral relationship. I remember that famous line here "Sex is not between Legs but it's in the Brain!"